Monday, April 14, 2014

Who is Out of Bounds?


Remember the Hood date I went on last weekend? I was encouraged to take the high road again and inform the fella that I won't be moving forward with any communication. Much to my disliking at the time, I knew it was the right thing to do. You see, I did not want to have him calling me over and over again and me ignore him. That type of rejection hurts and I am not into "intentionally" hurting men. So, I stayed a little beneath the radar with only giving him a piece of my reasoning for not moving forward. I explained that that day went really, really bad. He agreed that it had. I then offered him my truth. I do not know how to recover from such an experience and because of that YOU'RE FIRED!!! No, I didn't say he was fired but I did tell him he was fired. He said....now wait a minute here. I TOOOOLD you, that I was leaving work and coming to you. I said yes and you said you would be changing clothes and wrong on my part, I assumed you were going to present your self to me in slacks and shoes when meeting me for the first time. You see ladies, you must understand that this man wear's coldblooded suits to church all of the time and has Ostrich and Crocodile shoes....so that wasn't the problem. He continued, second of ALL, he said, I was going to get off the highway and tell you where I was so you could come meet me. And third of ALL, I didn't know we were going to a restaurant. I said hold on....I haven't even complained about meeting off the highway or the restaurant. My complaint is you not even presenting your self properly. Quite frankly, that is something I am not willing to teach. He said....NOW WAIT A MINUTE ANGIE.....YOOOU.....are out of bounds now! I said no, actually I am well within my bounds. He interrupts, can I just say something? CAN I SAY SOMETHING? I softly added, well there is really no need because I am just not interested at this point. He said WELL NOW, I AM CERTAINLY GLAD TO HEAR THAT.....GOODBYE.....and hung up on me. 

I laughed for the next three days!

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