Married is married. It doesn't matter if the individual is separated and the divorce papers are filed. Once the bond of a marriage is broken, there are emotional and spiritual edges that are jagged. Both individuals need space and time to heal and catch their breath. If you meet someone that's a wonderful person and you think they would be a great mate in your future, keep in touch periodically. Do not engage in the acts of dating or getting intimate. Why? Whether they live together or not, there are spiritual (unseen) laws that are still in effect.
Understand that at the day they stood at the alter and took the oath of forever, their spirits became one. Until, the law of the land (divorce) has been final, the spiritual law remains in effect. Not to even mention the emotional attachments that are unseen, the good and the bad. Just imagine adding your soul into their mix. That's an ugly pot of soup there!
In the event that you meet someone that is married, even if they are separated, do
yourself a favor and tell them what you would want someone to tell your
mate. I would say to the married individual, when you are single we can
interact. I would advise them to be sure they have done all that they can do to reconcile. Give it their all so that way, if or when they
leave....their hands are clean. As for you, don't get caught in adulterous affairs. You do not want to be
the straw that broke the camel's back in any marriage......way too
costly for your soul.
Stay alert....everyone is tested some day.
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